Promiscuity EFFECTS FOR TEENS
Teenage is a period of transition from childhood to adulthood. Education experts agree that teens are those aged between 13 years to 18 years. A teenager is no longer can be said as a child, but still not mature enough to be able to say today. They are looking for the most suitable lifestyle for him and even this is often done through trial and error method, although through a lot of mistakes. Mistakes are made often cause concern and an unpleasant feeling for the environment and parents.
The young generation is the backbone of the nation, which is expected in the future be able to continue the baton of leadership of this nation for a better life. In preparing the younger generation is also highly dependent on the readiness of the society with its cultural presence. These include the importance of providing a filter on negative behaviors, which, among others; liquor, consume illegal drugs, free sex, and others that can cause outbreaks of disease of HIV / AIDS.
Now this age of globalization. Adolescents should be saved from globalization. Because globalization is like a freedom from all aspects. So many foreign cultures that enter. While not fit with our culture. As an example of free sex culture that does not fit with our culture.
The young generation is the backbone of the nation, which is expected in the future be able to continue the baton of leadership of this nation for a better life. In preparing the younger generation is also highly dependent on the readiness of the society with its cultural presence. These include the importance of providing a filter on negative behaviors, which, among others; liquor, consume illegal drugs, free sex, and others that can cause outbreaks of disease of HIV / AIDS.
Now this age of globalization. Adolescents should be saved from globalization. Because globalization is like a freedom from all aspects. So many foreign cultures that enter. While not fit with our culture. As an example of free sex culture that does not fit with our culture.
At this time, freedom mix has reached the alarming level. The teenagers can mingle freely among species. No rare sight in public places, the teens tenderly embracing each other regardless of the surrounding community. They are familiar with the term dating from the beginning of adolescence. Boyfriend, for them, is one of the prestige of the plume. As a result, among teenagers and then there is competition to get a girlfriend. Definition of courtship in the era of globalization, this information is very different from the notion dating 15 years ago. Consequently, in this era many teenagers who drop out of school due to pregnancy. Therefore, in a period of courtship, the child should be given a briefing about the idealism and reality. Children should be awareness that reality is often not as we hope, otherwise expectations are not always become reality. Similarly, courtship. The beauty and warmth of real courtship will not continue forever.
In providing guidance and supervision of youth who are in love, parents should be balanced, balanced between control with freedom. The younger the age of the child, the more stringent oversight provided but children should be given plenty of sense for them not fear to parents who can cause them dating secretly. If age is increasing, parents can give more freedom to the child. However, it still must be maintained so they are not wrong road. Regret the error that has been done actually less useful.
In providing guidance and supervision of youth who are in love, parents should be balanced, balanced between control with freedom. The younger the age of the child, the more stringent oversight provided but children should be given plenty of sense for them not fear to parents who can cause them dating secretly. If age is increasing, parents can give more freedom to the child. However, it still must be maintained so they are not wrong road. Regret the error that has been done actually less useful.
Solving the problems in dating requires cooperation with the child's parents. For example, when parents do not agree with the boyfriend of the child's choice. This disagreement should be expressed with the wise. Do not just with violence and power. Give my best understanding. If not successful, use third parties to menengahinya. The most important thing here is the two-way communication between parents and children. Parents should be the friend of children. Parents should always establish and maintain two-way communication as well as possible so that children do not feel afraid to submit the matter to the parents.
In facing the problem of promiscuity among species in the present, parents should provide sex education guidance openly, patiently, and wisely to the teenagers. Teenagers should be given a briefing on sexual maturity and all that good and bad result from the existence of sexual maturity. Parents should set an example in emphasizing the guidance and implementation of practice morality. By having a strong practice of morality, teens will be easier to determine the attitude in the mix. They will have clear guidelines regarding actions that may be done and deeds that should not be done. Thus, they will avoid actions that should not be done and carry out actions that should be done.
Based on research in various major cities in Indonesia, about 20 to 30 percent of teens said they had sex. Unfortunately, sex behavior continues to tread the path of marriage. The threat of free sex teen lifestyle in general either in hostels or boarding-lodging house seemed to grow increasingly serious. Sex expert also specialis Obstetrics and Gynaecology Dr. Boyke Dian Nugraha in Jakarta said the data from year to year teenagers who have sex freely increasing. From about five percent in the 1980s, to twenty percent in 2000. Range of numbers, said Boyke, compiled from various studies in several major cities in Indonesia, like Jakarta, Surabaya, Palu and Banjarmasin. Even on the island of Palu, Sulawesi Tenggara, in 2000 and recorded adolescents who had premarital sexual intercourse to reach 29.9 percent.
Group of teenagers who entered the study an average of 17-21 years old, and generally still in school at the level of Senior Secondary School (high school) or students. However, in some cases also occur in children who sit at the High School (SMP). The high rates of premarital sex among adolescents is closely related to the increasing number of abortions currently, and the lack of knowledge of adolescent reproductive health will. The number of abortions currently carrying about 2.3 million, and 15-20 percent of them carried a teenager. This also makes the high rates of maternal mortality in Indonesia, making Indonesia the country that the highest mortality rate of mothers throughout Southeast Asia.
In terms of health, sex behavior can cause a variety of disorders. Among them, there was an unwanted pregnancy. Apart from a tendency to abortion of course, also be the cause of children who are not desirable. This situation can also be used as material questions about the quality of the child, if her mother had not wanted. Premarital sex, go Boyke can also increase the risk of cervical cancer. If sex is done before the age of 17 years, the risk of the disease could reach four to five times.
Amain mentally a teenager to not be tempted free sex lifestyle, if you constantly experience temptation and in great shape free from control, would one day be tempted also to do so. Such temptation heavier again for adolescents who are mentally and religious fortress is not so strong. Currently, to emphasize the number of perpetrators of sex-especially among teenagers-not only fortify themselves with a strong religious element, are also fortified with the assistance of parents and selectivity in choosing friends. Because there is a tendency adolescents are more open to his close friends than with their own parents.
Besides, it's time among teenagers are given a provision of reproductive health education in schools, but not in a vulgar sex education. Reproductive health education among young people not only provide knowledge about the reproductive organs, but the hazards of promiscuity, such as sexually transmitted diseases and so forth. Thus, adolescent children can be spared from trial free sex. In the current deterioration of the world's teenagers, strangely many parents just ignored me on the development of their children. Now there was a little busy parents with a reason for including the type of "super needle" alias rarely like to go home; prefer to place their children in Babby sitter. Gedean already in school a little on the expensive sekolahin but poor religious values.
Television is so lots of impressions made with 'hot', Video clip dangdut song alone, this time more boldly show off genitalia and scenes that make the deck-dean of the male heart. Not to mention the movie that made teenage brain poisoned with misguided message. Plus, the rise of tabloids and magazines that displayed images "sekwilda", aka the area around the chest; and images "regent", aka go thigh high. Silly, religious education in schools was not arouse awareness of teenagers to critical and innovative.
In facing the problem of promiscuity among species in the present, parents should provide sex education guidance openly, patiently, and wisely to the teenagers. Teenagers should be given a briefing on sexual maturity and all that good and bad result from the existence of sexual maturity. Parents should set an example in emphasizing the guidance and implementation of practice morality. By having a strong practice of morality, teens will be easier to determine the attitude in the mix. They will have clear guidelines regarding actions that may be done and deeds that should not be done. Thus, they will avoid actions that should not be done and carry out actions that should be done.
Based on research in various major cities in Indonesia, about 20 to 30 percent of teens said they had sex. Unfortunately, sex behavior continues to tread the path of marriage. The threat of free sex teen lifestyle in general either in hostels or boarding-lodging house seemed to grow increasingly serious. Sex expert also specialis Obstetrics and Gynaecology Dr. Boyke Dian Nugraha in Jakarta said the data from year to year teenagers who have sex freely increasing. From about five percent in the 1980s, to twenty percent in 2000. Range of numbers, said Boyke, compiled from various studies in several major cities in Indonesia, like Jakarta, Surabaya, Palu and Banjarmasin. Even on the island of Palu, Sulawesi Tenggara, in 2000 and recorded adolescents who had premarital sexual intercourse to reach 29.9 percent.
Group of teenagers who entered the study an average of 17-21 years old, and generally still in school at the level of Senior Secondary School (high school) or students. However, in some cases also occur in children who sit at the High School (SMP). The high rates of premarital sex among adolescents is closely related to the increasing number of abortions currently, and the lack of knowledge of adolescent reproductive health will. The number of abortions currently carrying about 2.3 million, and 15-20 percent of them carried a teenager. This also makes the high rates of maternal mortality in Indonesia, making Indonesia the country that the highest mortality rate of mothers throughout Southeast Asia.
In terms of health, sex behavior can cause a variety of disorders. Among them, there was an unwanted pregnancy. Apart from a tendency to abortion of course, also be the cause of children who are not desirable. This situation can also be used as material questions about the quality of the child, if her mother had not wanted. Premarital sex, go Boyke can also increase the risk of cervical cancer. If sex is done before the age of 17 years, the risk of the disease could reach four to five times.
Amain mentally a teenager to not be tempted free sex lifestyle, if you constantly experience temptation and in great shape free from control, would one day be tempted also to do so. Such temptation heavier again for adolescents who are mentally and religious fortress is not so strong. Currently, to emphasize the number of perpetrators of sex-especially among teenagers-not only fortify themselves with a strong religious element, are also fortified with the assistance of parents and selectivity in choosing friends. Because there is a tendency adolescents are more open to his close friends than with their own parents.
Besides, it's time among teenagers are given a provision of reproductive health education in schools, but not in a vulgar sex education. Reproductive health education among young people not only provide knowledge about the reproductive organs, but the hazards of promiscuity, such as sexually transmitted diseases and so forth. Thus, adolescent children can be spared from trial free sex. In the current deterioration of the world's teenagers, strangely many parents just ignored me on the development of their children. Now there was a little busy parents with a reason for including the type of "super needle" alias rarely like to go home; prefer to place their children in Babby sitter. Gedean already in school a little on the expensive sekolahin but poor religious values.
Television is so lots of impressions made with 'hot', Video clip dangdut song alone, this time more boldly show off genitalia and scenes that make the deck-dean of the male heart. Not to mention the movie that made teenage brain poisoned with misguided message. Plus, the rise of tabloids and magazines that displayed images "sekwilda", aka the area around the chest; and images "regent", aka go thigh high. Silly, religious education in schools was not arouse awareness of teenagers to critical and innovative.
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